Hotmilk My Necessity 2.0 FlexFit Nursing Bra - Busty Black L Busty - Hotmilk

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Hotmilk My Necessity 2.0 FlexFit Nursing Bra - Busty

$59.95

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SKU:MBB-LF

Colour: Black

Chocolate

Ballet Pink

Black

Size: L BUSTY

S BUSTY M BUSTY L BUSTY XL BUSTY XXL BUSTY

Caress FLEXFIT Bra - Regular

Size	A	B	C	D	DD(E)
8		S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R
10/32	S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R
12/34	S-R	S-R	M-R	M-R	M-R
14/36	M-R	M-R	M-R	M-R	L-R
16/38	L-R	L-R	L-R	L-R	L-R
18/40	L-R	XL-R	XL-R	XL-R	XL-R
20/42	XL-R	XXL-R	XXL-R	XXL-R	XXL-R

Caress FLEXFIT Bra - Busty

Size	E(DDD/F)	F(G)	FF(H)	G(I)
8	S-FC	S-FC	S-FC	S-FC
10/32	S-FC	S-FC	S-FC	S-FC
12/34	M-FC	M-FC	M-FC	M-FC
14/36	M-FC	L-FC	L-FC	L-FC
16/38	L-FC	XL-FC	XL-FC	XL-FC
18/40	XL-FC	XXL-FC	XXL-FC	XXL-FC
20/42	XXL-FC	XXL-FC	XXL-FC	XXL-FC

My Necessity FLEXFIT Bra - Regular

Size	A	B	C	D	DD(E)	E(DDD/F)
8		S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R
10/32	S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R	S-R
12/34	M-R	M-R	M-R	M-R	M-R	M-R
14/36	L-R	L-R	L-R	L-R	L-R
16/38	XL-R	XL-R	XL-R	XL-R	XL-R
18/40	XXL-R	XXL-R	XXL-R	XXL-R	XXL-R

My Necessity FLEXIT Bra - Busty

Size	E(DDD/F)	F(G)	FF(H)	G(I)
8		S-FC	S-FC	S-FC
10/32		S-FC	S-FC	S-FC
12/34		M-FC	M-FC	M-FC
14/36	L-FC	L-FC	L-FC	L-FC
16/38	XL-FC	XL-FC	XL-FC	XL-FC
18/40	XXL-FC	XXL-FC	XXL-FC	XXL-FC

My Everyday FLEXFIT Bra

Size	F(G)	FF(H)	G(I)	GG(J)	H(K)	HH(L)	J(M)
8	XS	XS	XS	XS	XS	S	S
10/32	XS	S	S	S	S	M	M
12/34	S	M	M	M	M	L	L
14/36	M	L	L	L	L	XL	XL
16/38	L	XL	XL	XL	XL	2XL	2XL
18/40	XL	2XL	2XL	2XL	2XL	3XL	3XL
20/42	2XL	3XL	3XL	3XL	3XL
22/44	3XL	3XL	3XL

Warrior 2.0 FLEXFIT Bra

Size		10/32	12/34	14/36	16/38	18/40
Underbust Measurement (CM) = Band Size		70-74.5	75-79.5	80-84.5	85-89.5	90-94.5
Bust Measurement (CM) = Cup Size	B-C	84-88	89-93	94-98	99-103	104-108
Bust Measurement (CM) = Cup Size	D-DD	88-92	93-97	98-102	103-107	108-112
Bust Measurement (CM) = Cup Size	E-F	92-96	97-101	102-106	107-111	112-116
Bust Measurement (CM) = Cup Size	FF-G	96-100	101-105	106-110	111-115	116-120
Bust Measurement (CM) = Cup Size	GG-H	100-104	105-109	110-114	115-119	120-124

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Overview

You want comfort that works as hard as you do, and My Necessity Busty in Black delivers just that! This seamless, wirefree nursing bra is designed specifically for fuller busts, giving you gentle support with clever hidden internal structure where you need it most. Made from super soft recycled nylon, it stretches and adapts with your body from pregnancy through nursing and beyond, offering true second skin comfort whether you are sleeping, lounging, or feeding.

With flexible sizing and a flattering full coverage fit, My Necessity Busty supports E to G cups without digging in or feeling restrictive. Thoughtful details like removable padded cups, a supportive side sling for skin-to-skin contact, and one-handed nursing clips make feeding easy and discreet. If you are below an E cup, the My Necessity Seamless Regular is the better fit for you.

Key Features

Light wirefree support with extra hidden internal structure for fuller busts
Seamless, full coverage cup design
Removable medium padded cups with soft lining
One-handed traditional drop-down nursing clips
Side sling nursing access for skin-to-skin contact
Partially adjustable straps for a personalised fit
Secure 6-hook back closure for added stability
Suitable for sleep, everyday wear, and feeding on the go

Technical Specification

Light, wirefree support with a full coverage cup design and removable medium padding. Features partially adjustable straps with a secure 6-hook back closure and a supportive side sling for easy nursing access. Made from recycled nylon with added elastane and micropolyester for comfort and stretch. Cold wash only

User Guide

Size Guide:

S: 8–10 E–G
M: 12 E–G
L: 14 E–G
XL: 16 E–G
XXL: 18 E–G

Fits true to size. Choose your regular size for the best fit. Designed for cup sizes E to G. If you are a DD cup or below, My Necessity Regular is recommended. The pictured model wears size L Busty (14F)

Delivery and Returns

Delivery: Free within NZ on orders over $100 (excluding bulky items) or $8 standard shipping
Returns: Accepted within 14 days of receipt with proof of purchase
Some items are excluded from returns including sale items, hardware, car seats, prams, monitors and personal items - please click here for the full list.

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